Thursday, September 04, 2008

Qualities That Women Find Attractive

Qualities That Women Find Attractive

Good news, guys! You don’t need to be as funny as Will Farrell or made of money to impress the ladies! In fact, some of the qualities that attract women may surprise you! Chances are - you possess at least one of them. Here’s the 411, courtesy of the experts at

It’s OK if you’re a man of few words. Dr.Emerson Eggerichs, author of the book Love and Respect, says yes, women love to communicate with the men in their lives, but that doesn’t mean long, drawn-out talks about every feeling you’ve ever had. The truth is - she can get the same communication without a single word being uttered. Simply stand face-to-face, look into her eyes and show your affection with a small gesture, like holding her arm or caressing her face. The important part is making eye-contact. As long as you’re really looking at her, which is a powerful form of intimacy, you’ll win her heart. No words needed.

Another quality that women find attractive: Your emotional attachment to your sports team. By their teens, most guys have learned to downplay their obsession with sports in front of women.Well, no need to hide it when your eyes tear up during the last 30 seconds of a game. In reality, women would rather see you get sappy over sports than never see you act mushy at all - it lets them know there’s a sensitive guy underneath. Hugging your friends after your team wins? Bonus points for showing unabashed emotion in public!

One last trait women find attractive: Your artsy side! You don’t need a fat paycheck to impress. Women actually find the frugal “I’m working on a screenplay” lifestyle alluring. Creative people tend to be charismatic, and their artistic pursuits are interesting to others. On the flipside, you don’t have to be a starving artist to appeal to women, either. If you’re an investment analyst, but you play the saxophone on the side, flaunt that hobby! Women like guys with creativity. Mostly, they like men who are passionate about something in their lives – no matter what it is.

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