Sunday, December 25, 2005

Turn On and Turn Off

What are some of the things that will get your attention about the opposite sex? What does it for you? What would make you run for the hills?

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love a woman who smells great. That being said, a woman wearing an overbearing perfume could certainly be a turn off.

What else..Let me think.. Ok, I probably wouldnt say this if I couldnt leave this comment as anonomous, but a big turnoff is when a woman has any hair on her upper lip. I know some can not help it, but it really grosses me out.

Anonymous said...

I do love a man that is well put together, stylish. If an average looking man (or not so average) has a good sense of style, that can go a long way for me. Of course, good sense of humor is a turn on...

I would say overall bad manners and poor grooming habits. Yes, hair on the upper lip grosses me out 2...lol, But I do appreciate a shaven head and goatee, go figure!

Anonymous said...

Turn On: well-dressed, well-spoken, well-groomed, fit & friendly gent. Good conversationalist!

Turn Off: yellow teeth, MISSING teeth, loud and ill poised!

cowgirl said...

Turn Off: Missing teeth, yellow teeth, crooked teeth! As you can see, that's my first priority - the mouth! Ill-mannered, loud, and a distracted conversationalist.

Turn On: Well dressed, poised, intelligent, fit and attractive non-smoker.

Anonymous said...

Moustaches are a turn off - not many men look good with them....even Tom selleck shaved his. Let's face it guys, you probably grew it 20 years ago to look older and, guess what? You are older. Shave it and look 10 years younger.

Yogaman said...

Turn on: Nicely dressed and well groomed, but not overdone. Physically fit, but she doesn't have to be superwoman. The right perfume is def a turn on, as long as it is subtle.
Add a twinkle in her eye, and a demure smile on her face, and she's turned me into jello!

Turn off: Showing up late. If she's a smoker. Crass, demanding behavior. Complains a lot.

Yogaman said...

Turn on: Well groomed and nicely dressed, but not overdone. Perfume is a turn on as long as it is subtle. A touch of makeup. Physically fit, but she doesn't have to be superwoman.
Add a twinkle in her eye, and a demure smile on her face, and she's turned me into jello.

Turn off: Smoker. Showing up late. Loud, crass behavior. A complainer. Sloppy appearance. Bad teeth.

Anonymous said...

A man who pursues is still a turn-on. Someone who goes afterw hat he wants. Good old fashioned flattery is great. A grat converstationalist and someone willing t bea little agressive and fun, not boring!!
The biggest turn- off is being dumped without an explanation.

Anonymous said...

I like a woman who dresses well and sexy.I like a woman who has a large chest and great nails.She must also smell great.A woman who has a open mind and is willing to give a decent guy a chance to get to know her.Woman who drink to much and smoke are a turn off.

Anonymous said...

A a woman, a turn for me is a man that initiates plans, and when asked "so what do you have in mind?"--he doesn't respond "I don't know"! Guys--have a plan! Show enthusiasm. Have ideas...even if it's an interest of your own you want to share with a woman. Aside from overall hygiene (fresh breath--no, an Altoid is sometimes not sufficient)--good dental hygiene every day and overall style and grooming...taking charge of the night and your appearance.

Turn off: Definitely a man that is CHEAP!

mimi said...

Turn Ons: Funny, Great Smile, Well Read, Has his own teeth, does not chew tobacco and can order wine from a wine list.

Turn Offs: Boring conversationalist. Sags his pants. Ball scratchers in public. Men who squeeze my back fat on purpose.

Anonymous said...

It's a turn on when a man looks at you as though he can't keep his hands off you but wouldn't dream of crossing that line too soon. A man who is confident in who he is and could care less what others think of him. A receding hairline with great eyes is an awesome combination. It's great when a guy sees you out somewhere and simply introduces himself, no lines no games. Even if your not attracted to him you have appreciate and respect the direct approach.

Turn offs: Anything unhygienic, close talkers, men that can not take no for answer, negativity

Turn off

Anonymous said...

Its a turn on when a woman is beautiful because her skin is clean and her hair is cut in a nice style, but bot a complicated coiffure that she cant wear in a convertible. Its a turn on when a woman laughs at the same jokes I laugh at.

Turn Offs (extreme)

Fake breasts that are too large, especially if she is showing them off. Strong perfume is a turn off. Whining about everything is a turn off. Going out to dinner and she doesnt eat what she orders is enough for me to never want to see her again. Women should surprise me in bed, not treat me as though she is doing me a favor. Using sex as a reward for buying something will end a date instantly.

The Other Charlie said...

Turn Ons Looks are important but not most important to me. The most important thing to me is a woman who reacts to me openly in a positive way. A woman who speaks well and isn't shy and who lets me know that she likes me directly no lying just give me some good feedback gets me intrested. Turn offs are holding back emotions, instant criticisms of me that will send me running.

Jay said...

The following was posted by a guy in the Gstring and the gym blog, but it seemed relevant so I am adding it here:

Interesting repsonses! i'm a guy, and think if a woman wears something like that where she knows men will be there, and she doesn't like people looking at her, it's her fault and she shouldn't wear a thong at the gym.

I'd also like to just add something, wondering if other men feel the same way. I am a man and I think panty lines are very, very hot. Seeing a nice cut panty through pants or a skirt is just great. Thongs have no lines, which are good too, but panty lines are sexy. Hope the women reading understand this, as I've been told my my girlfriend that women hate when they show panty lines??????