tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post537301355411095932..comments2024-02-24T00:33:51.679-08:00Comments on Speed Dating NYC| Speed Dating Long Island| Long Island Singles| Singles New York: Why Men Leave After The “Honeymoon” Is OverUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-27652857446466770612008-09-08T12:33:00.000-07:002008-09-08T12:33:00.000-07:00This is such horseshit.Plain and simple ladies: wh...This is such horseshit.<BR/>Plain and simple ladies: when a man is interested...a man is interested....and if he just feels more than a physical connection with you--you DO NOT have to jump through hoops, and get a Masters Degree in Psychology to figure his next move! LOL--what nonsense I am reading. When a guy is READY--emotionally for relationship and mature enough to understand what a relationship is all about--he will be capable of taking it to the next step. Age has absolutely no bearing on maturity either. I remember dating a guy that would commute from NYC to Queens every day just to see me, spend quality time with me, sans sex too! That's right, he didn't find it to be a sacrifice or too much work, or an inconvenience...he insisted on doing so. That's interest. No 3-day rule, or hidden feelings, or playing hard to get there. It was all genuine. When a man or woman is intrigued, they don't simply close the door based on what county you live in! That's absurd. And if a person actually does that, he is quite ignorant and close-minded and should expect to live a long and lonely existence. Anyone that is emotionally ready to have a long-term healthy relationship knows and accepts the fact that the so-called honeymoon period--or courtship will inevitably end..with the man and woman. A couple that is truly compatible can still have that romance, and moments where they are still so into each other, but it's not as intense and consistently experienced every day. It's only natural to expect to slow down, and get more involved with everyday routines, and not have that butterfly in the stomach effect. It's called "feeling accepted" and being "one" with a person you can just be yourself with. Nothing more complicated than that. If a what a man or woman wants is that honeymoon feeling...they can continue on their path to affairs--and walk away once that is over. That simply demonstrates how inept and immature someone is. By the way, commenting on one man's observation...it is true--a woman that is confident, self-sufficient, is put together, attractive inside and out, and knows what she wants, is not going to play these games...she has little time to waste and a good support system with her friends--and is capable of living life on her terms and doing as she pleases and making her dreams come true--the last thing on her mind, is having to deal with absurd strategies as a means of attaining a man that is serious-minded. What rubbish.<BR/>Signed,<BR/>A mature womanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-79873069317294545372008-09-03T01:45:00.000-07:002008-09-03T01:45:00.000-07:00Not all of us men leave after the honeymoon. Some ...Not all of us men leave after the honeymoon. Some of us have stayed through illness, treatments, breakdowns etc. I would just love a good woman to treat well. I don't expect someone to put up with this. Men better learn that modern women aren't waiting by the phone, but out enjoying each other, themselves and the world. You are losing out guys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-90355465041201900252008-09-02T18:11:00.001-07:002008-09-02T18:11:00.001-07:00Good God, where have the real men gone? Too much p...Good God, where have the real men gone? <BR/>Too much psychobabbleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-82604690919422702062008-09-02T18:11:00.000-07:002008-09-02T18:11:00.000-07:00ARE YOU KIDDING TMW- Too much work!! Did my mother...ARE YOU KIDDING TMW- Too much work!! Did my mother have to go through this crap to date my wonderful father? No way. Men were men then. We can do fine without you and your quirks and moods and dissapearing etc. Please stop the nonesense. Dating should be fun. I gave in and did one last speed dating. They guy said after looking on the map I lived too far (35 minutes away). My deceased husband rode his bike and hitch-hiked to see me before lhe had a car as a teen. Get some hutzpah, ment and get over yourselves and your issues.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com