tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post114771933964082206..comments2024-02-24T00:33:51.679-08:00Comments on Speed Dating NYC| Speed Dating Long Island| Long Island Singles| Singles New York: Understanding women- part 1Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-8918343165524082932007-04-26T07:55:00.000-07:002007-04-26T07:55:00.000-07:00I have to agree with anonymous on the direct appro...I have to agree with anonymous on the direct approach. A simple hello is always a good place to start, the bottom line is it won't matter what you say or do if the chemistry is there. Most men just don't know how to take the cue. If you say hello to a woman and she politely says hi but does not look to engage in further conversation MOVE ON! She's just not into something about you, it's not personal. If a woman finds you attractive in some way, that hello will be met with a smile and warm body language. Inviting someone to talk about themselves is always a good icebreaker once youv'e made initial contact. Rubbing a body part against you unless your in a mosh pit situation is definately an invitation although some women like "Erica" just like to tease to get a reaction, it's a game to them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-8590395228979204752007-04-23T12:56:00.000-07:002007-04-23T12:56:00.000-07:00Meeting a guy at a Bar?! It is no secret that a b...Meeting a guy at a Bar?! It is no secret that a bar is probably the worst place to meet someone...too many walls up, and based on how early or late in the evening it is--all parties will be drinking at some point. Secondly, if a man is drinking and then has the nerve to walk up to me, that is a small indicator of his level of confidence. If I am out with the girls for the evening, and there is someone who catches my attention (physically) - I may even walk up to him...but then it's all about his CONFIDENCE and personality...I may walk away in 5 seconds--or stick around if he has a sense of humor and something intelligent to say. Offering to buy me a drink will not make a difference. However, if he offers to buy me a drink in front of my other friends and he doesn't offer to buy them drinks...he's out--that is rude. Be a gentleman! No pick up lines required...just sincerity, charm and confidence. If a guy walks up to a woman amongst a group of other woman--good for him. I pay attention to body language, eye contact is key, the lack of cliches is also important--to any woman who is probably older and more experienced. Jay--great comment to Erica...she may have been decent looking--but with an attitude like that...she can quickly become quite ugly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-1148320653454834302006-05-22T10:57:00.000-07:002006-05-22T10:57:00.000-07:00"gorgeous" "pretty cute" "the most attractive wome..."gorgeous" "pretty cute" "the most attractive women in the bar..." You wanted to meet them even though they were rude and a trifle stuck-up(the last one even fell into the "bitch" category!). Too bad you were only looking for arm candy...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-1148211201727695132006-05-21T04:33:00.000-07:002006-05-21T04:33:00.000-07:00Hi, I would like to add my comments about meeting ...Hi,<BR/> <BR/>I would like to add my comments about meeting guys in clubs:<BR/> <BR/># 1) When you go to the bars "with the girls", are you going to just hang out, or are you open to the possibility of meeting guys.<BR/>I have heard time and time again that women go to "hang out" and guys go to "pick up". I do go to clubs with a friend on Friday nights sometimes (Zachary's) just to unwind and get some fun exercise after a torturous week at work, but I would certainly like to meet someone. <BR/>#2) How should a guy approach you? He should just make eye contact and smile, then come over and just say hello. No cheesy pick up lines....puleeze! Just be direct and be yourself. <BR/><BR/>#3) How should a guy never approach you? Don't come over and place your hands on my body, or say something really dumb like"How you doin'?", no dumb lines, and don't stalk me or follow me around all night, unless you're going to say hello.<BR/><BR/>#4) What is the first thing you notice about a guy physically? Definitely his eyes and face, smile. He has to have a nice smile.<BR/><BR/>#5) What personality qualities does a man have that attracts you? He should be comfortable not cocky, be well groomed, and not look at me while licking his lips (at least not yet)!! Just be honest and direct. If I caught your eye because I have one green eye and one blue eye, say so!<BR/><BR/>#6) How do you let a man know you are interested? I try to make eye contact and smile. If I'm REALLY interested I might approach him and start talking or ask him to dance.<BR/><BR/>#7) If a guy acts uninterested, does it make you want him more? Does it make you say, "Why isn't he interested in me?" Sometimes, but I just move on....I don't waste time worrying about it.<BR/><BR/>Sharon (Cookie)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-1148210533663067342006-05-21T04:22:00.000-07:002006-05-21T04:22:00.000-07:00karen's remarks makes me realize why she is single...karen's remarks makes me realize why she is single and will stay that way. what stranger in their right mind will walk up to another stranger and say they think your good looking so i wanted to meet you (thats why she was approached originally). Empathy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-1147998765602563012006-05-18T17:32:00.000-07:002006-05-18T17:32:00.000-07:00Personally, I have lost any faith in ever meeting ...Personally, I have lost any faith in ever meeting any eligible guy at a bar/club...which is why I turn to speedating/match.com/singles parties. My friends and I are always up for a "girls night out", but do not expect much else, since most of the time men are looking for some action and little else more. <BR/><BR/>I would say that I usally am attracted to a man's eyes and smile first. Then I make my way down...a man that is well groomed and put together is always a turnon. Lastly, if he can make me laugh and offers to buy me a drink, I am definitely interested.<BR/><BR/>Regarding the boob thing, I would have to agree that women know exactly what their body parts are doing at any given moment in time. The only exception to this would be any rockin' friday happy hour where all body parts seem to be in contact with anything animal, vegetable or mineral!<BR/><BR/>One last thing, since you mentioned the "Crazy Donkey" , I have overheard from few groups of men that the women are "easy" there...makes me wonder if men have some silent network of "easy" women watering holes that they frequent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20070900.post-1147739631684577692006-05-15T17:33:00.000-07:002006-05-15T17:33:00.000-07:00jaybo nice comment to erica and her friends about...jaybo nice comment to erica and her friends about paying double like we need those kinda ladies aroundAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com